When you dream up your wedding day, what comes to mind? For most of us, we picture a stunning dress, gorgeous flowers, the perfect venue, and decorations that set the mood. But what if I told you that these are just things that can be replaced, remade, and revisited? What truly makes your wedding day special are the moments that you cannot replace or remake. Brides, we challenge you to focus on these moments instead of things.

When couples start planning their wedding, the inevitable question arises: why is pricing so expensive? It's a fair question, and one that deserves a thoughtful response. But when we think about why weddings cost what they do, we don't just consider the cost of the things that make up a wedding day. We also think about the moments that truly matter. Moments like the look of someone you love crying at the sight of you, the butterflies you get before walking down the aisle, and your first kiss as a married couple.

These are the moments that cannot be replicated or replaced. They are the moments that you'll treasure for the rest of your life. Of course, we understand that the cost of a wedding can be prohibitive for some couples. But we urge you to consider investing in the moments that will matter long after the day is over.

When we work with couples, we often discuss the importance of photography. Photos are more than just pictures; they are a tangible representation of your memories. In 50 years, you may not remember every detail of your wedding day, but you will have photographs that bring those memories flooding back. Investing in a great photographer is investing in those future moments. When your great-grandchildren look back at your wedding album, they will be transported back in time, feeling the love and joy that you felt on your wedding day.

Of course, photography isn't the only moment that matters. Your wedding day is made up of countless moments, from the exchanging of vows to your first dance as a married couple. It's the look on your parent's faces as they raise a toast to you, the laughter of your closest friends, and the feeling of pure joy that washes over you as you say "I do."

As you plan your wedding day, we urge you to focus on moments, not things. While it's easy to get caught up in the details of dress fittings and flower arrangements, remember that what truly matters is the love and joy that will be shared between you and your partner. Your wedding day is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to celebrate your love and commitment to each other, surrounded by the people who matter most to you. So, as you plan, don't forget to savor those moments you can't replace or remake. They are the ones that will stay with you long after the wedding day has ended.